Sunday, April 5, 2009

Crazy Ex's....

Is it just me or does anyone else have an annoying ex? I've never been married, so of course this is an ex boyfriend, but ex husbands count too! Six years ago I met a guy who made me laugh and seemed to know how to make me smile even when I was furious at him, which eventually became all too often. Well isn't that how it always begins...

It didn't take long until humor wore off and that was the only thing he had going for him. He eventually just went crazy on me and after his cheating and abusive behavior I finally (after many break-ups and make-ups) called it quits. It took long enough, about 3 years.

Ever since I broke up with him for the last time around three years ago he has called me. Sometimes he will wait a few months and out of the blue here is a call. It is always the same line, I realize this or I realize that, I want to be friends...blah blah blah. It drives me nuts! I have contemplated changing my number and probably will end up doing just that. I no longer take his calls which I know is a step in the right direction. Every time I did things just ended up in crazy land!

It's sad that people are so crazy they can't just let go and let live. He put me through hell honestly, and I deserve to have some peace.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

A Farewell to Chinese ....

I took my last trip to the Chinese resturaunt yesterday..
Farewell Chinese food, we have had a good run, but it’s time I let you go. All you do is add unwanted pounds with every trip to the buffet. Saying goodbye is always hard to do, especially when you have known each other for so long…but things must come to an end between us. I wish you the best of luck as I start this new era in life. Perhaps when I reach my first goal I will reward myself with a visit with you...but for now it is farewell.